You may be in search of a clear answer as to how do some guys attract girls that easily. How do these guys get girls drooling over them? How come other guys have it that easy?
Apparently, females are easily attracted to status and power. Also, they are drawn to confidence, strength, and symmetrical features. Making a girl fall for you, distracting her from your shortcomings is referred to as seduction. Here you will find helpful tips on how to seduce girls.
First and foremost, work on your image. Establish an identity that everyone likes and admires. Look good all the time and possess a positive bearing. Make friends with anyone and emanate an irresistible charm. Nobody, particularly a girl, can actually elude a guy who is liked by everyone else.
Next is to keep up with your reputation. As people start to like you and get used to your presence, it is likely that you will begin to appear plastic or phony. You also have to let your inner self come out and reveal the human side in you. You may talk about sexuality but only in ways that you think Shakespeare will approve.
Moreover, you may be surprised but it helps to do the opposite of what most guys are doing. Say for example, if a guy showers a pretty girl with tons of attention, do the opposite: ignore her. Upon knowing of your reputation, she’ll begin to think why you are not paying any attention to her. She may even assume that you have something for her.
Before you do any move, observe any indicative signs of interest for her part. Like, ignoring you from the start; yet, flirts consistently in the end. Or if the girl is shy, she appears timid at first but then learns to drop significant hints that she is interested and is expecting you to do a move.
Moreover, talk seductively. Do not start your conversation with topics like school, work, family, TV shows or any of those daily stuffs. Also, do not speak about yourself. Instead, talk about dreams, ideal vacation destinations, history, mythology, even sex sometimes, fate and any other intangible and delightful subjects. Do not express any other views save for those she likes and your preferences for beautiful things. While talking, keep an intent gaze and look straight into her eyes. This is important. Do not fret out and do not apologize when talking to her. Otherwise, you will be regarded as weak.
Meanwhile, if you are confident enough of your masculinity, it sometimes help to show a hint of sensitivity and weakness for it will conjure an honest, harmless and more romantic you, fitting to every girl’s notion of being “the one.” However, if it will only make you appear naturally weak, then skip this tip. Do this if you are certain you can pull it off.
Another advice is to give her enough space. This is especially beneficial if the girl sees something in you that is not pleasing to her. If you are truly interested, then allow some time for her to forget your flaws and enough time for her to acknowledge and fantasize the wonderful things you can offer her.
Eventually, you will know when the right time to ask her for a date is. That is, not too late or too early. You should know that girls get tired of waiting. If you let her wait, you will come to realize that the attention she showed you during the early period of flirting with her will come to a halt. It denotes that she is tired of waiting. Remember that girls are attentive to timing and the first date. So practice and have some luck on it.
As you get to spend some time with her, establish rapport and build emotional connection. Make memorable moments together, find out what you have in common and try to relate on the things that spark her interests or are passionate about.
Consider seduction as an art. Akin to painting or learning to play the piano, it takes much practice to do it right. Each girl is unique. Therefore, tailor your actions and your words to perfectly suit that particular woman. Know what is in her mind before you actually provide her the enjoyment and satisfaction she yearns for.