Break ups are painful and the pain will be even more, if you have been in a deep relation. You wanted the relation to last till you are alive but it ended abruptly making you almost dead. In any relationships there are happy moments and sad moments, several difficulties and these are things that bring you and your lover together. The relationships grow when couples go through the tough times often. However, when you are sad, all these things seem just lines from some famous book on relationships.
You will find it difficult to come out of the trauma that this break up had created. Your heart is longing for your Ex and you are unable to stop thinking about the happy times, you two have shared together. If that is the case, then you should try to get your Ex back into your life. Yes, it is possible to win your Ex all over again. Read the tips mentioned below, as these tips will be helpful for you in winning your Ex back.
1. Take control of the situation – Try to understand what exactly happened that spoiled your relationship. Double check, whether you did something wrong that angered your Ex. If you want to get your Ex back in your life, then you can always ask for forgiveness from your Ex. In case it was not your fault, that this break up happened, you should wait for your Ex to approach you. If you do not wish to ruin your self-respect then this tip is necessary.
2. Try to Improve yourself – I know this is hard. As you are feeling sad and dejected. You are full of negative energy right now and improving yourself is not anywhere on your mind. However, only you can help yourself to come out of the negativity that is around you. Try to find out your weaknesses and work on them. Try to make a lasting impression on people from your personal as well as professional life. If your Ex will see the changes in you, he or she will also feel charmed by your personality.
3. Avoid contacting your Ex much – Take some time away from your Ex. You and your Ex needs time to heal completely from the break up in order to decide what you and he or she wants to do. It is highly possible that when you two will not see each other or not get to talk to each other, you two will miss each other and that might prove crucial in bringing two of you back together. So even if, you feel like calling your Ex and meeting them, avoid purposefully. Give some time to your Ex to see how it feels to live without you in their life.
4. Don not forget to call them on Special Occasions – You have to call your Ex to wish them on their birthdays and other special days. This will make them realize how much you care for them. You should call them if you come to know about their ill health from common friends. There is no need to complicate matters but avoiding your Ex for long time. You should have a healthy friendship between the two of you. This will be your ladder of hope to get your Ex back in your life.